Self-sabotage must be accepted and its perpetrator (the split-off aspect of self, screaming to be heard) honoured, so that gradually, it feels less and less need to get in the way of your happiness and success. The self-sabotaging aspect of self is responding to what Freud termed, the death urge, the yin, or contractive pull occurring throughout the universe, throughout your affairs and throughout your psycho-physical system. It cannot be prevented, any more than night can be prevented from following day.
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