Elegance is such a…well, elegant word. It derives from the Latin for having the taste to choose (something tasteful) and is so elegant...

Whenever you forget who you are and what everything is (the Tao having fun on the material plane through you and everyone), you fall...

Accessing the subconscious is mostly about being able to direct your attention to the base of the midbrain region. Once you’re able to...

Visualize yourself trundling along the road, like an innocent fool, not moron, mind you, dear reader, but fool in the archetypal sense –...

I was mentioning the use of the phrase ‘holding it all together’, and explaining how this belies a spurious sub-template to the...

If you watch carefully as you go about your business in the everyday realm, you’ll notice yourself describing your experience to yourself...

I’m filled with the thrill and privilege of being alive and able to communicate and connect with you dear reader, because you never know...

To enjoy the ride to the full it’s of paramount importance in the order of tools for keeping yourself balanced, to desist from taking...

If you’re feeling a bit out of the swim of things, slightly at odds with the human race, shy, antisocial, or dependent on substances or...

If things are in a mess and you’re worried and fretful, here’s a wonderful way to alter the action without doing anything directly about...

If someone you love is treating you badly and it’s breaking your heart, you can fight, you can resist what’s happening, you can get...

The issue of people-pleasing and the significance of learning to stop it is one to keep exploring I think, dear reader. What is...

Is prestige important? Is it useful to stand above or before others? The underlying urge is to be accepted, to be part of the group and...

There are times to push and times to sit back and let it all come to you. Naturally I can’t tell which phase of the cycle you’re in...

As with all things Taoist, to effect a shift for the better, you go further into the stuckness. It’s the same as with pushing someone off...

Comparing yourself to others who seem to be doing better than you, then falling prey to envy is an inevitable aspect of your revolving...

Dealing with other people with all their complexes and peccadilloes can sometimes be a tricky thing, what with all the misunderstandings...

People are generally primarily concerned with looking good, looking as if they have everything under control, looking as if they’re...

Someone I work with is a top stylist and a real handsome guy with a great build who exudes confidence and self-esteem in an exemplary...

In your interface with others you have two main mode options: judgement or compassion. It’s easy to fall into judgement mode without even...