When discussing destiny, paradox is inevitable and no less so even when doing so in the clear light of the Taoist model. Everything is as it is because it was always going to be as it is – it was ‘written’ at the inception of existence – it was one of the infinite individuated whispers that combined to produce the big bang and then proceeded via an exponentially growing chain of cause and effect stretching from the beginning of time to this present moment. And furthermore it will continue to be inevitably what it was always going to be henceforth too.
However – and this is no doubt also written into the original script – you are able to intervene at any point, provided you know how and take command of it, in such a way to fuel-inject whatever was going to happen anyway and so apparently cause it to show up as something much better than had you not done so.
I wish for your destiny to carry you through an endless series of beautiful moments today and tonight.