You may think what you want is a relationship or to manifest way more wealth or whatever it is that keeps itching your I-want-I-want cortex but what you actually want is peace, which you believe will come about once you have the object of your desire.
It won’t work.
Seek peace and all else will be added is the golden immutable metaphysical law.
Manifest a state of peace within and then all the external accoutrements required to facilitate and perpetuate that internal state will manifest spontaneously.
Surrendering to this notion releases a lot of stress in itself, which in turn adds to the peace and initiates a new phase in its generation.
I wish you the very essence of peace to grab hold of you from within and grant you the perspective of a sage today.